Dear Spiritual and Love-Inspired Women,

• Do you have a deep desire to be in a loving relationship but can't seem to attract one, or worse, you either attract emotionally unavailable men, or you're an expert at sabotaging relationships?
  

• Do you have a deep desire to love and accept yourself and to put a stop to the rantings and ravings of your Inner Critic?

• Do you have unresolved issues from past relationships?

• Do you give up yourself, your interests, your dreams, and/or your friends when you're in a relationship?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The problem is that you've tried it all. You've read the books, taken the courses/seminars, signed up for the dating sites, been on the blind dates, and you're still struggling with love. You have no trouble attracting men or getting dates; however, these rarely turn into committed relationships, and you're at a loss to why that's happening.

People are telling you that you're being too picky and too judgmental, and it's simply TIME to settle because you're not getting any younger. You neither want those lonely evenings, nor do you want to keep hopping from date to date because you're simply done with that hit and miss approach.

You've written your LIST of what you want in a man, and you know exactly what you want, yet you can't seem to find him anywhere.

You're already in your late 30s to mid-40s, and you really want to share your life with someone who brings value to your life. You've had just about enough of being the third wheel during social outings, and most importantly, you believe deep down in the very depths of your heart that there is a perfect match for you out there somewhere.

You believe in the romance and the passion, and you don't want anything less than that. BUT you can't take one more disappointment or one more man who is hung up on his ex, or one more man who JUST wants to have fun.

You're ready for a more meaningful and committed type of love.

If any of this is resonating with you, you've come to the right place. My name is Reem Shibel, and I'm .  I heal hearts for greater love and passion.

Relationships are the biggest vehicles for growth.  They come into your life to teach you more about how you feel about yourself, how you behave around others, and how you treat yourself. Every single person that you draw into your life, mirrors something to you about yourself.  You enter into short-term and long-term relationships because each relationship has growth opportunities for you which you have free will to grab or reject.  All these relationships prepare you for that very special one that you're still looking for.

 

I feel compelled to write you because of the amazing changes that have taken place since our session.  I feel liberated and relaxed. My anxiety level has decreased enormously. This has allowed me to find solutions rather than remaining inactive and paralyzed by self-inflicted fear of the unknown. I feel in control of my world again for the first time since my trauma. And, for the first time in years I am actually sleeping 8 hours again. I could not believe that the night of our meeting I slept 11 hours! Additionally, I seem to approach the world around me proactively and with clarity rather than reactively with emotion.  My relationships have improved dramatically to the point where my friends and family have made mention of how relaxed and happy I am.   I feel like my old but new self!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!"

~ LMS

 

So, why are you struggling so much to find that great love while others found it in their 20s? This is a complex question, and the answer depends largely on your soul's purpose, your upbringing, experiences, and lessons in this lifetime.

Where there's a will, there's a way, and if you're feeling the tug in your heart, that's your soulmate energetically calling out to you.  The most significant question NOW is "IS YOUR HEART IN A STATE TO ACCEPT LOVE OR REJECT IT?"

 

If your heart is rejecting love, you'll be feeling and/or experiencing any or all of the following:

You're afraid of getting hurt AGAIN.

You secretly believe that you're not good enough.

You're critical of yourself and of the men you are dating or have dated.

You have unresolved issues with past partners.

You feel angry and resentful towards previous partners.

You often take comfort in eating fattening food, chocolate, ice cream, and/or drinking alcohol

You focus on your failed relationships instead of on how much you've grown because of those relationships.

You tend to over-give with your time and attention and then feel upset that no one gives back to you or cares about what you want or what you're feeling.

You sabotage relationships whenever you get the chance by being needy and clingy or controlling.

You stay in unhealthy relationships much longer than you need to.

You are very attached to the "need to be liked by others," and you're in the pattern of pleasing others at your own expense.

You need a lot of praise and validation from others to feel good about yourself.

You hide out and fear going out on another date or getting into another relationship because it's TOO DIFFICULT, and you're always STRUGGLING to make your relationships work.

You're afraid of getting stuck in an unhappy relationship, so you've perfected the art of sabotaging your relationships or intentionally keeping yourself single.

 

I had excellent results when I recently visited Reem to deal with some ongoing grief I was experiencing. She applied the highly effective Belvaspata technique. Afterward, all of my questions and needs were tended to so quickly. I came out of my grief and jumped back into life within the week. My spouse said my entire aura has changed. I feel lighter, happier and have moved forward in life. I found a job and my passion is back. I believe Reem is truly gifted. I am highly recommending her to friends.

~ A., Retail Salesperson

 

Here's why your heart is rejecting love...

As a soul, you come into a lifetime carrying with you the hurts, pain, and unlearned lessons of past lifetimes.

You also inherit relationship patterns and beliefs from your family going several generations back.

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You are wounded by your love experiences in this lifetime.

Did you know that your love wounds act as magnets that draw to you dates, relationships, and situations that challenge you so that you can see these wounds clearly and heal them in preparation for that higher calibre relationship that you so desire?

The reason why you haven't succeeded in attracting the right partner for you is that you're trying to cognitively with your mind "change" what you think is wrong with you or with the men you get involved with. Love is not a cognitive process, and there's no way that a cognitive process will heal your heart.  Love is an emotional and energetic vibration that expands and contracts depending on your experiences in the moment and all the experiences you've brought forth with you into the present.  Dwelling on the past and worrying about your future and the prospect of growing old alone don't manifest that great love either.

Another major obstacle for most educated and successful women is that they're spending too much time in their masculine energy.  They've forgotten how to be feminine. Femininity is not JUST about wearing dresses, high heels, and having makeup on.  Feminine energy is the energy of receptivity, vulnerability, and intimacy.

Did you know that the brain needs 30 minutes to switch from masculine mode to feminine mode?

The solution to your relationship struggles and dating disappointments is to have your heart healed and cleared of all past conflicts and pain.  Here's why...

 

With a healed heart, you'll...

be able to love yourself again and to cultivate an Inner Goddess State of Love which is a very magnetic state to be in

feel fearless and will approach your dating life and relationships with a lot more focus and determination

be able to love more passionately and deeply

have a new level of intimacy, both emotional and physical, available to you

have successful relationships

get out of unhealthy relationships at the right time, or you won't get into them at all

be more open to being loved and will attract more loving men

be much less attached to the “need to be liked by others” and will attend to your needs first so that you can give to others from a place of fullness instead of depletion

give yourself the validation you need because you'll be able to see your true worth in all its glory

be able to accept yourself as is, and you'll have more compassion and forgiveness for yourself when things don't turn out the way you would've liked

release the need to take comfort in food, chocolate, ice cream, and alcohol

embrace who you are right now regardless of your shape, size, or age and you'll draw into your life men who accept you as you are

be open to new ways of seeing yourself and others

be able to see relationships as the LEARNING and GROWTH OPPORTUNITIES that they are instead of perceiving them as difficult struggles

communicate much more openly and with a lot more ease with everyone in your life

move forward with great ease, joy, and glory

be a fabulous role model for younger women in your life, especially siblings and/or children

 

It’s been several months since our first healing session and a few months since our last session over skype.  I need to let you know that although this time has passed my heart continues to heal daily from my divorce.  I’m regaining my emotional independence and learning to love myself again without looking for or needing validation from others. I can see now that I can’t make it right by others’ – men – so I must make it right for me.  I can’t let my self-worth be based on others’ assessments of me.  It’s important for me to care about what I think…not what others think.  It’s clear to me that the lack of emotional availability from others – men – is not a reflection of my lack of worthiness or attractiveness or not being loveable…rather it is a self-preservation mechanism on the other person’s part and no matter what, I cannot make it right…that is the other person’s problem.  I should stop choosing these people to prove that I am good enough.

I complain about being or feeling invisible…So, if I put on a big show, then people will hear me...you know, the drama...now I realize that I’ve been ignoring myself, so, I’ve been invisible to myself!

It’s time to stop being afraid of looking at and acknowledging myself.  I’m not perfect, but I’m worth loving regardless of what cultural protocol dictates, or what other children teased me about decades ago.

Those who do not look with loving eyes do so for reasons that do not involve me.

None of these breakthroughs and insights would’ve been possible without your healing energy treatments.  I can’t thank you enough.

~ LMS

 

Wishing you a year of magical love,

The Heart Mentor

Healing Your Heart for Greater Love, Passion, and Intimacy